“I know, for both of us, the dead world’s much too crowded.”
Live long enough and all,
reluctantly, must agree. Most of our relatives and oldest friends are dead –
the unhappy price paid for longevity. As Dr. Johnson describes grief in The
Idler (January 27, 1759):
“The loss of a friend upon
whom the heart was fixed, to whom every wish and endeavour was tended, is a
state of dreary desolation, in which the mind looks abroad impatient of itself,
and finds nothing but emptiness and horror. The blameless life, the artless
tenderness, the pious simplicity, the modest resignation, the patient sickness,
and the quiet death, are remembered only to add value to the loss, to aggravate
regret for what cannot be amended, to deepen sorrow for what cannot be
recalled.”
The line at the top
is from “Letter to Horace After Reading Ode i.24” by a poet new to me, Tamara
Nicholl-Smith, published in Modern Age. The poem is dedicated to
David Solomon. She addresses the Roman poet as she might a friend:
“Horace, I must confess,
you’ve managed to surprise
Me. I had thought there
were too many centuries
Between us—that your verse
would sound like dusty, sighs;
Nothing that would please.”
Nicholl-Smith endorses a notion
commonly dismissed: a writer born millennia ago can still speak to us, often
more potently than contemporaries. “Despite our progress, pain is pain. / And
Death, in any age, won’t give back what he reaps.” The next line in the fourth
stanza, “Our loss remains his gain,” sounds like an echo from Bob Dylan’s "The
Ballad of Frankie Lee and Judas Priest": “My loss will be your gain.”
Horace’s Ode i.24 is
dedicated to Virgil. David Ferry’s translation (Of No Country I Know,
1999) begins: “How should this grief be properly put into words?” It concludes:
“It is hard. But all of
this must be endured,
And by endurance what can
never be changed
Will be at last made
easier in the heart.”