The Rev. Sydney Smith writing to his friend Harriet Martineau on December 11, 1842:
“I am
seventy-two years of age, at which period there comes over one a shameful love
of ease and repose, common to dogs, horses, clergymen and even to Edinburgh Reviewers. Then an idea comes
across me sometimes that I am entitled to five or six years of quiet before I
die.”
Without
being complacent or self-satisfied, Smith was one of those rare people
perfectly adapted to inhabiting the world and being a human being. We so seldom
encounter such rarities they can come off as freakish or soft-headed. Smith
was a serious man who behaved like a happy man. He was a fierce advocate of
emancipation for Roman Catholics and helped shame Parliament into it. “Sydney
Smith was,” Guy Davenport writes, “quite simply a good man, an example of
abundant good nature.” My nature is less good than Smith’s, though as I turn seventy-two
today I’m looking forward to a few moments, if not days or years, of quiet. In
reviewing Alan Bell’s 1980 biography of Smith, Davenport writes:
“Once at
Combe Florey in Somerset, he hung oranges in the trees, for the beauty of it,
and fitted his donkeys with felt antlers, for the joke of it, and herded them
under his orange-bearing cedars, and invited the neighborhood in for cider and
fruitcake, for the fun of it.”
I’d like to
be that kind of old man but I’m not sure I have it in me. But neither am I an
old man like William Butler “Monkey Glands” Yeats, forever raging about something.
If age teaches us anything, it’s surely that anger is tiresome, nasty,
egocentric and pointless. Who cares if you’re pissed off about something? Among
Yeats’ final poems is an untitled verse included in his essay “On the Boiler.”
It begins:
“Why should
not old men be mad?
Some have
known a likely lad
That had a
sound fly-fisher’s wrist
Turn to a
drunken journalist;
A girl that
knew all Dante once
Live to bear
children to a dunce;
A Helen of
social welfare dream,
Climb on a
wagonette to scream.”
Hopes are
unrealized, talents wasted. Most of us by the time we leave puberty understand
those realities. An angry man, old or otherwise, is a bitter man and makes for lousy
company.
[The Smith
letter can be found in Vol. 2 of The
Letters of Sydney Smith (ed. Nowell C. Smith, 1953). Davenport’s essay, “The
Smith of Smiths,” is collected in Every
Force Evolves a Form (North Point Press, 1987). On the Boiler was published by the Cuala Press in Dublin in 1939,
the year of Yeats’ death.]
Happy birthday, Patrick! I'm right behind you. I'll be 72 on November 5th. Be good to yourself today.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday, Patrick, and all good wishes for the year ahead-. And thanks for the reminder that anger is tiresome, nasty, egocentric and pointless. It is sad to note that at age 72, Sydney Smith wanted 5 or 6 more years, but only lived to age 73.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday, old man!
ReplyDeletePerhaps now, sir Patrick, is a good time to pick up "Coming to Age: Growing Older with Poetry", eds. Hoberman & Hopley (2020).
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