Do we “love”
the university that employs us? She’s an alum and has worked there, in various
capacities, for twenty years. I’m the tyro at four years with a hole in the
middle. No, she said, not love but likewise not hate. The university, like a
person, is too vast to merely love – or hate -- too complicated, too
contradictory. To say “I love this school” (or “this person”) is a sentimental
convenience. To describe the array of emotions a person or institution elicits
would try the patience of sane listeners
or readers. I love much about the university – the trees, a handful of
colleagues, the library, the respect with which I am treated. With that, my
friend could agree. She’s less sentimental than I, more of a realist, as women
often are. When I suggested in a faux-hippie tone that we might agree each of
us “likes” the university, she didn’t bother answering. See A.E. Stallings’ “Sestina: Like” on the empty ubiquity of “like”:
“But as
you like my friend. Yes, we're alike,
How we pronounce,
say, lichen, and dislike
Cancer and
war. So like this page. Click Like.”
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