Saturday, March 09, 2024

'He Does Not Make a Nice Old Man'

A friend who is a great admirer of Thomas Carlyle sent me an excerpt from a letter the Scotsman wrote to his mother on September 12, 1843: 

“I spent a forenoon with Jeffery who is very thin and fretful I think; being at any rate weakly, he is much annoyed at present by a hurt on his shin – a quite insignificant thing otherwise; which however disables him from walking. Poor Jeffrey! He does not make a nice old man, he has too little real seriousness in him for that.”

 

“Jeffrey” is Francis Jeffrey (1773-1850), the Scottish judge, literary critic and co-founder of the Edinburgh Review, who a month later would turn seventy – hardly ancient by our reckoning, but an advanced age by his and Carlyle’s. I’ve never associated being a “nice old man” with seriousness, and Carlyle was never, at any age, a paragon of niceness. Self-seriousness, a strain of humorless narcissism, if anything, breeds misery, especially for others.

 

Two stereotypes of old age persist, and not without some measure of truth. On one end of the behavioral scale, curmudgeonly nastiness, intolerance, imperiousness. On the other, the kind-hearted, sweet-natured fount of wisdom. We’ve all known pure embodiments of both extremes among the young and old, and we, at least periodically, indulge in every stop along that spectrum.

 

“[W]e ought to inquire what provision can be made against that time of distress. What happiness can be stored up against the winter of life? and how we may pass our latter years with serenity and cheerfulness?” Dr. Johnson asks in his Rambler essay of November 13, 1750. Never one to soft-soap reality, he continues:

 

“Piety is the only proper and adequate relief of decaying man. He that grows old without religious hopes, as he declines into imbecility, and feels pains and sorrows incessantly crowding upon him, falls into a gulf of bottomless misery, in which every reflection must plunge him deeper, and where he finds only new gradations of anguish and precipices of horror.”

3 comments:

Gary said...

That last paragraph: Johnson should have known better than to spout that stuff.

Brian Green said...

The meaning of the word "nice" that Carlyle had in mind in 1843 is probably not "kind, considerate, or pleasant (to others)" (OED--the first citation for this meaning is from 1830). If being "nice" was connected to "real seriousness" in Carlyle's mind, then possibly he had in mind one of the other meanings that were still current at the time, such as "entering minutely into details; attentive," "finely discriminative," "minutely or carefully accurate," etc.

slr in tx said...

I would say that Johnson worked both sides of the avenue; pious, yes, but seemingly better acquainted with "gradations of anguish and precipices of horror." A nice turn of phrase, however, as one can always expect from the good Dr. J.