“If
you want to praise acceptably, be very precise. Inattentive praise is almost an
insult.”
I
would delete “almost.” This has applications to everything from workplace
ethics and etiquette to book reviewing. In an age when everything is “awesome,”
nothing is good. “Inattentive” is precisely the word for polite, empty
ass-kissing – a gesture of acceptance rather than an expression of admiration.
And here she is on another symptom of our time:
“It
is very profitable to advertise your psychic infirmity. No one will dare to
make any demands, and the usual duties of humanity are cancelled.”
She
is diagnosing pathology (real, imagined or fraudulent) as an all-purpose excuse
for being lazy, stupid, impatient or angry. And this, on another mistakenly
valued virtue:
“Spontaneity
requires complex arrangements to produce and lots of help to clean up after.”
Often people
admired for their spontaneity are arrested adolescents (of any age) who
have arranged for Mom and Dad to be close by with a credit card and health
insurance. Related to this aperçu in a
subterranean fashion is another:
“Living
single has invigorating aspects that are the exact obverses of the obvious
downsides: guiltless freedom, unnegotiated leisure, and the sharp, pure air of
independence—not for everybody.”
Those
who most desire unfettered independence are often the ones least able to handle
it. This is about as close as Brann gets to La Rochefoucauld-like cynicism (or
realism):
“People
say they like people. But they seem to mean new ones, not the ones at hand.”
Not
“No Theme.” Her theme is childishness persisting across a lifetime and encouraged
by the culture. Here is the idea as applied to politics in 2015 (as you read it,
think of the people in your life who come to mind):
“Adult
fanaticism as observed in me: tunnel vision and wild generalization; bug-eyed
credulity and balking at counterevidence; paranoid cocooning and dreams of
domination; manic mentation and mindless proscriptions: a prolonged Walpurgis Night
of the soul.”
And
a fine refutation of multiculturalism:
“It
is a touching but strange notion that to know each other better is to love each
other more. Why should a maxim hold for all cultures when it is manifestly
untrue for many couples? And yet it’s the premise of globalist education.”
And
here is Brann’s final entry, which contains a rare allusion to a recent writer:
“Here’s
a closing thought from [James] Merrill’s `The Broken Home.’
“`I
have thrown out yesterday’s milk
And
opened a book of maxims.
The
flame quickens. The word stirs.’
“Might
that happen?”
1 comment:
Two posts in two days, and I still can't stop my so-called brain from turning 'Eva Brann' into 'Eva Braun.'
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